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Ready for my close up….

I have a new office. Well, it is actually one of the same old bedrooms in our house, but we have given it a major overhaul. It has been cleaned and painted from top to bottom, adorned with a new desk, rug and drapes. The things that were in this room are coming back in one at a time. With each item, I am taking the time to see if I truly need it or not. This room had previously housed our computer, desk and other “office” stuff. It had also become a catch all for everything else. When that happened, it became a room that I did not like. There were things in the room that did not belong, and other things that needed to be addressed, but could be ignored because they were hidden in the chaos.

As I sit here enjoying the fruits of my hard work, I know the room is a metaphor for my life. Every so often, God sharpens my vision and gives me a clearer view into my heart. He lets me see the mess that has accumulated and not only does He give me the desire to clean it up, He gives me the ability to do it. How do I make this connection between this room make-over and my life? Well it has to do with two things. Provision and insecurity. These are two fears are the stumbling blocks in my life, but with each new day, God is giving me the will and the way to overcome them. Continue reading “Ready for my close up….” →

February 18, 2017 1

Points to ponder..Marco Rubio speech

So this is not what was on my agenda for the morning, but I had to sit and quickly get it out. I was doing my normal morning check of Yahoo to see if there was anything interesting going on, and I saw a Washington Post article that caught my attention.

“Marco Rubio just gave a really important speech – but almost no one paid attention”

Now that headline coming from the Washington Post was enough to get me to read the article. Even better than that though, they posted the video of the speech. After reading the article, I watched the speech in its entirety and I would encourage everyone to watch it also. I am glad I watched, as I took away two important things to consider.

First, it is about how we are going down a rabbit hole, my words not his, of not being able to have civilized debate on the issues. He sees that as a problem, and on that point I agree wholeheartedly. It is about eight minutes long, but really worth your time. And while I have had this type of opinion for a while now, I am glad that I am not the only one thinking….what the heck? I think you can disagree with this man on everything, but can agree that we have to communicate and try to understand each other, even when we hold different views. Especially when we hold different views!

Now I did say that there were two important points, and this is the second one. I did read the article from the Post, and while the author agreed with what the Senator said about the state of debate in our country, he also seemed to cast aspersions on the Senator himself. Just reminding us that he is a politician, and you know? That Rubio was saying this maybe not from his heart, but because it would serve his “long-term best interests”. After I read the article, I watched the video itself, and agreed that it contained important thoughts. So I decided that I would post it, but did not necessarily want to post the article with it. So I Googled the speech, and that is when I really came to my second point. I saw more headlines about the speech, but these had a different take.

“The Marco Rubio knockdown of Elizabeth Warren no liberal media outlet will cover”

Each side took the same speech, saw it through their own beliefs and gave it a little spin. How can the same words have such different reactions? What does it show me? Well, it says to me that when we hear the news, we only get part of the information. From both sides. So do your due diligence. Before you get all hot and bothered by someone’s remarks, go to the source. Find the video, document or whatever! If you can’t do that, then hold back that little bit in your brain that acknowledges that you might be wrong. That you might not have been given the whole picture. Maybe that will even help us with understanding each other.

So I would encourage you to listen to the speech. To not worry about who is saying it, why he is saying it, and where he is saying it. To take his remarks, on their own merit. I know this is hard. After you listen, consider his remarks and see how you feel just about the words said. Make up your mind as to whether they make sense or not, and if you can take some wisdom out of them. After that, you may go back to agreeing or disagreeing with him, as is your pleasure.

*I did not post a link on purpose. If you are interested in seeing the video just Google Marco Rubio speech and you will find it.

February 10, 2017 0

Out of balance…

images-3 Balance has been on my mind. Some of it has to do with the political news, some with my life, but I decided to write about it because of a news story about the Wallenda family.

You know who they are? The crazy people on the high wire, that for over 95 years have thrilled and scared the …well you know what….out of people. All at the same time! This week while they were practicing for a show in Florida, they attempted an eight person pyramid. I say attempted, because they didn’t complete the stunt, as one of the performers lost their balance and fell. Some were images-2 hurt, and thankfully all will recover. As soon as this horrific event happened, they immediately started looking for a cause. The most likely culprit was the rigging, and it was the first thing they checked, but they discovered it wasn’t the rigging. They determined that it was the most simple, yet most important thing in an aerial act. Balance.

One of the performers lost their balance. It may have been a little, or a lot? I have a feeling though, in that kind of stunt it doesn’t matter. On the high wire, it’s all about balance. As I read the account of the fall, I thought it was pretty good word picture. Life it seems is all about balance.

Whenever the king consulted them in any matter requiring wisdom and balanced judgment, he found them ten times more capable than any of the magicians and enchanters in his entire kingdom. Daniel 1:20 NLT Continue reading “Out of balance…” →

February 9, 2017 0

Once a foreigner…..

I have been sick for the past two weeks, and have found it hard to sit and write for extended periods of time. So for some reason, this previous blog post popped into my head, and I decided to share it today. I am hoping the coughing ends soon, but I think this blog post helps me remember who God wants me to be in these very noisy days.

During the week, I sat down with my husband and watched a PBS special on “Italian Americans”. Being one myself, I was interested to watch the story of the Italian immigrants who started to come to this county in the late 1800’s. Those who came to America faced prejudice, racism and a hard life in the midst of the industrial revolution. They came though, for a better life! While it was a hard road, they travelled it with their families, community and their faith. I totally enjoyed the program, but I was not really encouraged by it until Saturday. That was when I took some time to study for our Sunday lesson.

As I read through the story of the ten lepers that Jesus heals, I was struck by the one who came back to thank him. He was a Samaritan, a foreigner. In the Bible account, he is the only one who comes back and gives praise to God. It is interesting that the author of the story points out the difference of his nationality. I believe that may speak to the prejudice in Jesus’ own time. It is the same prejudice that affected my forefathers, and the same prejudice I see affecting people today. It was in that connection, that I heard the quiet whisper of encouragement.

What was so encouraging about seeing that prejudice has not gone away? Well it was Jesus example. Instead of bypassing those who were different, He chose to heal and forgive. He did not pay attention to the prejudice of the day whether it was based on race, nationality, sin, religion or class. Jesus looked past all these things to the actual person. It was exciting, even liberating. For me, it showed a freedom to ignore the classifications that society puts on people. The freedom to treat everyone as if they were just like me, because they are, even if they don’t seem like it. That is the freedom that Jesus gives us. To accept the foreigner as if he were family.

And yes….that is the manifest for my Great Grandfather when he came to this country in 1898.

January 30, 2017 3

Ready to be fed….

So when I hear the same things from different sources in a short amount of time, it unknown catches my attention. It happened again this Sunday as I sat in service listening to my pastor. Like right off the top of my head, I cannot tell you what he was talking about? I know….that sounded really bad. What I do remember though is a phrase he used, “Don’t be spoon fed the gospel”. I got all excited because that is a foundation of my faith journey. I heard it in 2009, when I went to a women’s conference and heard the speaker, Priscilla Shirer, say it. I thought about it, and knew that it was important to not only remember it, but to implement it.

What has it meant to me over these years? Well, it was something that I bought into. If I wanted to get to know Jesus better, it was in my power to do so. I didn’t have to go into a church building, listen to someone with a seminary degree or have it told to me. Now do I go to church and listen to seminary trained pastors? Yes, of course I do! I find though that God speaks clearest to me, through my own willingness to seek Him out.

It was pretty fun to hear that in service, and when I got home I pulled out the program from the conference I had attended. I don’t typically keep that much stuff, but like I said it really made an impact on how I live, so I had put it away. She had used the story of Jonah for her talk, and I can remember being thankful for Jonah and the second chances that God gives each of us.

It was pretty funny then on Monday when I got a text from my friend, about our bible study group. It said that we were doing a new study on Jonah, and sure enough, it was by the speaker from so long ago. No, I don’t believe in coincidence, but I do believe in a God who cares enough about me to speak in a way that I will hear Him. Ok Lord I get it, I am listening, and I can’t wait to hear what you have to say!

January 25, 2017 0

A little perspective

Perspective. I would love to go into all the cool things that got me here, but I am unable to. I am fighting a cold (still) and now a headache (again). So this gets to be short and sweet. Why not wait till I feel better to expound on this very timely subject? Well, because I was actually feeling better, and now I am not. If I put it off any longer, I get this feeling that it will never get written. Is it that important? I am not sure for you, but I know it is for me.

What have I learned about perspective in the past few weeks? Well some people can look at the same situation and have very different visions of what they see. It all comes down to perspective. So many things go into how a person perceives life, the values they were taught, the experiences they have had and their own chemical make-up. And sure as the day is long, none of us have the exact same perspective on everything. As frustrating as it is, that is how God made us, so that means it is good.

I am not sure what the next year will bring, but I know one thing I want to do. I want to withhold my judgement (for lack of a better word) and listen. I know my perspective, but I want to be willing to listen to yours. I still might not agree with you, but by listening, I hope to find the common ground that we do share. It’s there, I know it. And I hope in this next year we all try to take the time to find it

January 19, 2017 1

Good News, Great Joy, All People!

So to make a long story short, I have a bit of a new purpose statement for this new year. It really kind of came to me a little before Christmas, and it seemed to make an impression for multiple reasons. I actually could not get away from it because it is a bible verse that is part of the traditional Christmas story. Wow…this short story seems to be getting longer by the minute!

But the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people”. Luke 2:10

I was looking for a verse to make some wall art, and this one popped onto my radar. I knew it would be awesome, so I would use “Glad Tidings, Great Joy” on a picture. It is actually one of my favorite verses out of the Christmas story, because of a church production that I was in many moons ago. One of the children said the line, like sixteen times, over the two weeks that the show ran. “I bring you glad tidings of great joy!” Every time he said that part, we laughed. The way he emphasized the words was so …joyful! To this day, the memory still makes me happy.

This time though, I was struck by a different note in the verse. It was the end that seemed to jump off the page and stick in my mind. I totally remember the “glad tidings and great joy” part, but I didn’t remember hearing the “all people”? At that point, I was thinking that something important was missing from my project. The “all people” was not something that I felt could be left off the photo.

Why? Well maybe it was a reaction to this whole year of anger, fear, with so much talking and not enough loving. In this past year of election noise, I wondered if that proclamation of “good news” was clearly heard? Did I see “great joy” when I looked in the mirror? Or in the church pews? And were “all people” able to hear and see those things? We may have thought so, but in watching and listening, I really wasn’t so sure?

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January 11, 2017 1

New Year…still speaking

images-1 So today is January 4^th and an old blog post showed up from 2014 on my FB feed. You know, one of those things they bring up every once in a while that you can share? I never get my old posts coming up like that, so I decided to read it and see what my thoughts were back then. As I opened and read the post, I knew it was what I was supposed to read this morning.

I was actually reading a little bit this morning on a very popular Christian blogger/author who is taking some hits recently. I had been reading someone’s critique of her, and I really had to disagree with him on a point. Why? It was because I felt he was splitting hairs over semantics. What was it about? Well it was about how God speaks to us.

Since that is pretty much the reason I write, I immediately took notice. Now his premise was that God has said everything He was going to say in the bible, and I agree with that. He also said that looking anywhere else for God’s voice was wrong. Well, I don’t go looking for God’s voice necessarily, but I seem to hear him throughout my day, and it may start with anything. Reading my bible, a sermon, a prayer or something that I witnessed in my everyday life. It could come from TV, a movie or something that is happening around me. It typically doesn’t stop there, as these things come in waves. I will then hear that same message again from various sources, and when I see that, I start to listen. Then I start to ask God to clarify what I am hearing. Is that God speaking to me? Yes! I believe so.

Is it something that will contradict scripture? It never has. Is it some kind of new revelation? NO. It is typically the same old reminders to be who He has called me to be. They are usually the reminders of His presence, His care for me and further encouragement to finally do the things I already know I should do. So this morning along with this post I have included the previous posting. Continue reading “New Year…still speaking” →

January 4, 2017 0

Lost on SR155

So it is Saturday, and that means my hubby wants to practice with his new camera. The thing about that is, he always wants me to go with him. He was disappointed this morning, since I had an appointment at 9:00 and that means any day trip wouldn’t start till after 10:00. We are kind of a get up at the crack of dawn and miss the traffic kind of travelers, so waiting till that late in the morning was hard for him. I think I made it up to him though, as I got us a bit lost which gave us a bit more of an adventure.

We were supposed to be heading to the Tule Elk State Nature Reserve, but I got it mixed up and we ended up at the Kern National Wildlife Refuge.

The place where we wound up was closed, can you imagine? It was only open for the duck hunters, which is not the kind of shooting we do. We made a note to come back, especially when a big hawk flew over us moving from a tree to a telephone pole. It was amazing!

So I attached a few pictures. Since I had steered us wrong, I knew I had to make it up to him. So I told him he could drive, and he did. We wound up going into the foothills on SR155. We saw blue sky, the small town (?) of Woody, beautiful green valleys and cowboys. It was a wonderful day. We now know a great route to drive for some beautiful scenery and two places that we will visit in the future. More places to explore, and more pictures to take.

December 18, 2016 4

Cheryl Mendoza

How He speaks to me…..Or… can't He just call my cell when He wants to talk?

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