How do you talk to people? Especially people you don’t agree with? As I was reading, I was struck by two conversations this morning. Two conversations, two different outcomes. Two different questions, with two different intents. And one Jesus.
One question was asked to trick and catch him saying something wrong. The other was asked seeking an honest answer.
One was asked to show how wise they were. The other to gain wisdom.
One was asked, but the answer didn’t really matter to those who asked it. The other was asked, with the answer being of the utmost importance.
Two answers were given that day, but only one truly listened. I was struck by both questions, their intent and the reaction to the answers.
When you talk to people, what is your intention? Is it to prove them wrong? Or is it to understand?
When the one man heard wisdom in the answer, Jesus said “you are not far from the kingdom of God.” Sounds like a mile marker to me. How the man approached the question and reacted to Jesus’ response, showed something about his heart.
I wonder…..what do our questions and responses show about ours?